Sexting Guide for Couples
A tasteful, consent-first guide to help partners connect through words— with privacy, comfort, and respect.
Always check comfort levels before getting spicy.
Use secure apps, avoid screenshots, and disable previews.
Compliment, reassure, and respect boundaries.
How to Start (Comfortably)
- Ask for consent: “Want to flirt a little? I can keep it sweet or spicy.”
- Set tone and boundaries early (playful, romantic, cheeky).
- Use present-tense imagination and specifics (but avoid pressure).
- Check-in: “Loving this? Want more or slow down?”
Flirty Openers
- “Thinking about you and it’s making me smile.”
- “I keep replaying last time in my head…”
- “If I kissed you right now, where should I start?”
- “Want a sweet version or a spicy version?”
Romantic Prompts
- “I want to make you feel adored tonight.”
- “Describe your ideal slow evening with me.”
- “Tell me one place you want my hands the most.”
- “Close your eyes. What do you want to feel first?”
Playful Sexting Games
Send one sincere compliment about their personality.
Sexting Dice
Use this prompt or tweak it, then send.
Respect, consent, and privacy come first. Use these tools to spark connection— always at both partners’ comfort level.
More Sexting Templates & Guidance
Consent & Safety
- Ask, set boundaries, and use a stop word—no pressure.
- Only proceed at mutual comfort level; check in often.
- Never share private content without explicit permission.
Privacy Tips
- Disable previews; consider app lock or hidden notifications.
- Avoid identifiable photos; be mindful with screenshots.
- Delete sensitive messages if safer; agree on storage rules.
More Templates
- “Tell me one word that turns you on right now.”
- “Describe your perfect slow kiss in 5 words.”
- “Choose: forehead, neck, or lips?”
- “Give me a 1-10 mood check.”
- “I want to make you feel cherished tonight.”
- “Close your eyes—what do you want to feel first?”
- “Quick fantasy teaser? I’ll keep it gentle.”
- “Should I slow down or keep going?”
Guidelines
Sexting should enhance connection, not create anxiety. Keep language supportive, respond to your partner’s cues, and celebrate boundaries. Comfort first, play second.
Disclaimer
This content is for consenting adults. Follow local laws and platform policies. Respect your partner and protect your privacy.
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