Your partner’s feedback is the map.
Choose an area, technique, and mode to create a short three-step experiment: ask, try, and check in. No body part receives a universal sensitivity score.
Choose an area and a technique.
There is no universal sensitivity score. Your partner’s feedback is the map.
A simple round, from start to finish.
- 01
Agree on welcomed and off-limits areas before choosing a round.
- 02
Select an area, touch technique, and open-eyes, eyes-closed, or timed mode.
- 03
Read the three steps aloud and begin only after a specific yes.
- 04
Record the response as Not for me, Maybe, Yes, or More for this session.
Make “skip” part of the rules.
A game should make communication easier. It never replaces a direct yes, and nobody owes an explanation for passing.
- Sensitivity varies by person and by day.
- Eyes closed is not the same as consent to surprise touch.
- Avoid broken, irritated, numb, or painful areas.
- Stop immediately with pain, dizziness, numbness, or distress.
Questions before you play.
Why are there no sensitivity ratings?
Generic ratings can encourage assumptions. A person’s direct feedback is more useful and can change with mood, health, context, and timing.
Is feedback stored?
No. It remains only in page memory and disappears when the page is refreshed or closed.
Is this medical guidance?
No. It is a communication game, not medical advice or treatment.